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*"The future is as bright as your faith" -President Monson...One of my favorite tidbits from conference last weekend. Lots and lots of good stuff this conference.
*I was picking up Natalie's room earlier this week and found that she'd just stuffed her pajamas from the night before under her bed instead of putting them in her hamper. Frustrating. So I said "Natalie, why would you put dirty clothes under your bed???" to which she replied "Mom, it's just my thing....." Um OK then....
*We hunted Easter eggs at my grandparents house today. A tradition that goes back longer than I can remember and is something I look forward to every year. My grandparents really outdo themselves. They fill and hide 14 plastic eggs each for about 20 grandkids, great-grandkids, and foster-grandkids. That's a lot of eggs and A LOT of candy. The girls had a blast. I was the only one who couldn't find all my eggs. Sad.
*Jesus loves you. And you too Rachel. I think I needed to let you know. hahaha
*Kyle and I made pickles yesterday and it was a hoot! We are definately going to make more in the future, they turned out pretty good. Pickle, pickles, pickle smell. Pickle train conducting... If you can tell me what that's from you win.....
*I haven't had a full nights sleep at all this entire week. I'm really looking forward to taking a nap tomorrow. I hope.
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Yup another girl!
We went for an ultrasound this morning(Kyle, my mom, and me) and got to see how the baby was doing. She was very uncooperative but things looked good. The baby is definitely a girl. She weighs about 9 oz so far and is measuring right on her due date. I was thinking maybe she'd be measuring a little behind because I haven't gotten very big yet and have only gained one pound. At our first ultrasound she was measuring several days behind but she seems to have caught up. I love being able to say HER and SHE now instead of IT! Her name will be Leah Pearl, a name we decided on very early in the pregnancy, maybe even before I was pregnant, now I can't remember. Natalie was really hoping for a brother and is still sulking and hoping for one. Kyle and I are very very excited and glad that we can still be "Kyle, Brenda and "the girls"!
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Week 3.....making progress. Good job dear!
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Week one working on the trampoline pit

Natalie with Dad planting seeds

Our spring garden day one.....hopefully SOMETHING grows, this is our first attempt at a garden!
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Ok time to play catch-up starting with a couple weeks ago.
We've been working on all the paperwork and hoop-jumping we have to do to have Kyle adopt Natalie for a ver long time and we finally FINALLY finished a couple weeks ago. We were just waiting for our court date and now it's all over! Kyle, Natalie, and I went to the courthouse and waited and waited for our turn to see the judge. Natalie got pretty antsy waiting but she thought it was cool when we went in to see the judge and he was asking questions and talking to her. It's definately a relief that it's all over and it was fun for us to spend the morning just hanging out with Natalie, we don't get to do that very often. We are really looking forward to going to the temple some time soon.
The day after the adoption was done I had an ultrasound. I was about 13 weeks and it was a "Nuchal Translucency" scan. They do the ultrasound and a blood test to test for things like Down Syndrome and Trisomies 13 and 18. Natalie and my sister Rachel came along and it was really fun seeing the baby. Natalie thought it was SO cool. She always likes coming to my appointments to hear the heartbeat so this was even better for her. She kept saying "Aww how cute" and things like that. The baby looks good, everythings is healthy and the tests came back to show that my risk for any of the defects was practically nothing. We don't know whether it's a boy or a girl yet, we'll probably find out within the next month or so. But we think it's a girl. I guess we'll see! So far our name choices are "Leah Pearl" for a girl and "Bennett" for a boy. We still don't know for a middle name for a boy. Any ideas?
Last week was my birthday. I turned 23. Exciting stuff. Ok, not really, but it was fun to have family over for dinner to celebrate. Everyone came over Friday night and we had loads of food and fun. Kyle's sister Xan and her husband Jason and their little girl Hannah drove down last week from Oregon and made it in time to visit with us that night too so it was a full house. It was a blast having them here and I'm sad that they're gone already.
Ok I think I'm mostly caught up. I'll post the ultrasound pictures when I have a chance to scan them.
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Natalie recently started going to preschool two days a week at a friends house. This week they had a Valentine's Day party and went to the Ceretta candy factory to learn a little bit about how they make their yummy candy. For the party, Natalie made some fun treats for her friends in her class. She had a blast!

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When I was pregnant with Hartley, Kyle and I could not decide on a name for her. We were torn between two names: Avery and Hartley. We decided that we liked both well enough so we'd just wait until we saw her and then see which name fit her. Well needless to say, she was obviously a Hartley so things worked out well. Even though we're only about 8 week into this pregnancy we've been batting names around already I thought I'd post them now and see if/how they change over the next 7 months.
If we have a girl:
Leah Pearl
Holland Pearl
Charity ?????
We like Pearl as a middle name. It's my grandma's name. But I'm not sure it flows as well with Charity.
If we have a boy:
Leiland ????
Kimball ????
Everett ????
Wyatt(after Kyle) ????
Kent(after my dad and grandpa) ????
Owen ????
I'm pretty clueless about middle names for boys. Feel free to add your thoughts/suggestions
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Natalie and Hartley at the Zoo with Grandma Horne
Natalie's contribution to our family blog:
How old are you? Um, 5! Almost 6.
What is your favorite thing to do for fun? I like to play with my camera and my computer and dig in the dirt. And when Dad helps me ride my bike.
What is your favorite thing to do with Hartley? Play and pretend that I have magic and swing on the swing.
What is your favorite food? Ice cream
What is your favorite color? Pink and red and all the colors of the rainbow
Who is your favorite person? Ummm Mom and Dad and Hartley. My whole family. Cause I love my family.
What is your favorite movie? Barbie movies
What is your favorite book? Ummm my favorite book is Curious George.
What is your favorite primary song? I like all of them. All of them are my favorites.
What is your favorite scripture story? Noahs ark because I thought it was fun.
Do you want our new baby to be a brother or a sister? I want both. I want a twin.
What is something you are looking forward to this year? This year I'm looking forward to Valentines Day because I can make Valentine cards. I'm excited to see all my friends when I start school.
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I have to say, this Christmas was the best Christmas EVER. Kyle and I had agreed not to buy each other presents this year- the house was our big present to one another. We were fortunate to be able to get into our house and settled(mostly) before the holidays and it was most definately an awesome Christmas gift. So we decided we would focus on the girls and not get each other gifts this year. But still, Kyle kept asking what I wanted for Christmas. And I would tell him, "I just want a house......and a baby." And we already had the house so......To make a long story short, we're having a baby!! We shared the exciting news with our families on Christmas day and everyone is happy to have another little Bourgeous bundle of joy joining us this summer.
I think this finally gets me pretty much caught up on my holiday blogging...now we can start the new year haha
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Natalie: "Mom, Dad's going to cook you dinner tonight."
Me: "Oh that's sweet!"
Natalie: "Yeah, I told him he had to"
That girl knows how to keep a man in line.
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The Christmas season would not be complete without the annual Christmas party held by my Great Grandma Bailey for my dad's side of the family. My grandma is a dear dear woman. She's 95 years old and blind but still has a love for life and her family that I so admire. Each year we gather at her home to sing(very loud) songs and share memories and fun Christmas stories. Each year my dad is asked(or volunteers) to recite a favorite family poem called "Annie and Willie's Prayer". It tells a sweet story and I'm amazed that he can always recite it from memory year after year. We look forward to this special Christmas tradition and are exciting to keep it going.
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I know it's a little late but I'm working on catching up here. We've had lots of exciting things happening in the Bourgeous home. Christmas is always much more fun when you have little ones and this Christmas was no exception. My dad has made it a tradition to make gingerbread houses and decorate them together. This year he made over twenty houses! He bakes them and puts the houses together himself and buys TONS of candy to put on the houses. No matter what age you are, this is a blast! We went over to my parents house the week before Christmas and had fun decorating the houses(and eating the candy) We also took some to family and friends to decorate as well. LOTS of fun! (Pictures to come)
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This year Natalie is old enough to write a letter to Santa "all by herself". While I did have to help her sound out and spell some words I think she did pretty well. I thought it was also cute that she included Hartley in there "since she can't write a letter to Santa" This was her letter:
"Der Santa,(Dear Santa)
For Christmas will you bring a pone set(pony set), princess macap(princess makeup), a doll, and art stuf(art stuff). And fo Hartle(for Hartley) los of blox(lots of blocks).
Lav,(Love)
Natalie"
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I can't believe December is half way over and I haven't had a chance to post on our blog. Now that we're getting settled into our house I'll probably get better at this. December is a busy month for everyone. It was no different around the Bourgeous home. We put our tree up early in the month but haven't decorated it yet. It's pretty with just the lights and Hartley hasn't touched it yet(as soon as it has decorations she'll be ALL OVER it) But we'll decorate it this week and post a picture.
Last week we spent some time at my parents house making tamales and trying to take some Christmas pictures of the girls. That didn't go over very well. Natalie didn't want to have her picture taken and poor Hartley had burned her hand earlier in the day and just wasn't happy. In the end we got a couple cute pictures of Natalie but we'll have to try with Hartley another day.
Saturday night was our ward Christmas party. We have an awesome ward and the Christmas party turned out wonderful. Great food, fun people, a neat show put on by the YW/YM and of course a special visitor. Natalie had been really excited about seeing Santa all week but once we actually got to santa(played by a sweet family friend) she was terrified....She wouldn't talk to him or sit in his lap or take a picture so I gave up. NOT a good day for pictures I guess! In the end she was sad that she didn't get to talk to him so we waited in line AGAIN and she didn't talk to him AGAIN. We did manage to get a picture though thanks to aunt Kim!
Sunday was another fun day with family. It was Kyle's 30th birthday! We had my parents and his parents and siblings and spouses over for dessert Sunday night. I think Kyle would have liked to pretend it was just another day but I'm grateful for my handsome husband and look forward to spending many many birthdays with him in the future.
So far this week has been fun too. We finally got our shutters installed Tuesday and the look great! Much better than the sheets we've had hanging in our windows since we moved in. Haha Other than that it has just been preparations for Christmas. Shopping and baking and all that good stuff. We also have some fun things planned for this weekend. And I WILL get pictures!
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I haven't had time to blog lately because, well, I haven't had any spare time at all! We've been very busy getting our new house ready to move into, getting our things moved, and getting the old house ready to turn back over to our (wonderful)landlords. Just ask Kyle, I've been a bit of a crazy person lately just trying to do it all. We have been so blessed to have such a wonderful family and such sweet friends who have helped us SO much with the girls and with moving and cleaning and feeding us very yummy meals on days when Kyle and I probably wouldn't have taken the time to feed ourselves! haha But now we're starting to get settled in and we are looking forward to some down time to simply enjoy life. I'm just so grateful for all that our family has been blessed with. Kyle and I look back one the short time we've been married and we can't believe all that has happened to us. We have a beautiful home in a ward we love that is filled with some of the most kind people in the world. We both have amazing families that we are blessed to be so close to. We have the sweetest little girls and we have each other. Kyle has a stable job and the ability to provide for our family. We're all healthy and happy and loved. And most importantly we have the gospel to guide us and strengthen us when times get tough. It seems like when we think life can't get any better, it does!
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Formal living room and dining room
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"You will have significant experiences. I hope that
you will write them down and keep record of them, that you will read them from
time to time and refresh your memory of those meaningful and significant things.
Some may be funny. Some may be significant only to you. Some of them may be
sacred and quietly beautiful. Some may build one upon another until they
represent a lifetime of special experience."-Gordon B. Hinckley